Sunday, May 20, 2007
6:34 PM
Friends
Friends? The crucial ingredient in the recipe of life.

Friends are everywhere and are always available for you to interact. However, there is many different friends. Can you differentiate them? Are they really friends? You might ask but still, you think they are your friends. Maybe they are really your friends, but not all of them are.

Friends who aren't beside you, are still your friends as friendship bonds are hard to break. But how to keep the bond as firm as possible? It will need your commitment, patient, and trust. Without any of these, could the friendship everlasting? You might know many people around you but who are your trusted friend?

It is ridiculous when you treat someone as your friend but he/she stabs you at the back. You will never who are them because they are too pro in pretending. What will I call them? They are just hypocrisy and don't have the value of being a friend.

Which one will you prefer? Be with someone you trust or be with someone who you don't even know anything about him/her? It is your choice. But then, it might affects your future, life and mind.

To me, I will choose to be with every of friends, no matter who they are. Of course, I will aware myself in time and protect myself from being stabbed, but still this is inevitable. I never know who stab me in the back. I suppose there is one or two.

Friendship sounds great and have many friends sounds even great. But it is hard to maintain if you're the only one to maintain. You might be fed up or even want to give up in the process. Somehow, I ever gave up and fed up in my lifetime, but I can't stand losing friends, so I try to "rescue" my friendships. It is, maybe, too late, but I won't give up. =D

I admit that I am weak in maintain my friendship with anyone. Somehow, I think I am worthless for being a friend. Once I lost contact with them or having less contact with them, the bond fades. So, I am kinda sorry to my friends who are studying abroad. I still care about you all but I don't know to show it out. Sometimes in a while, I will greet you and wish you luck, but after that, I am like lost again. You might think that I am just finding excuses for myself, but really, I want to maintain it. Well, it is up to you whether you believe or not.

But I believe that once we're friends, we're friends forever.

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